A Tribute to the True Power of a Woman

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I was sifting through old articles that I ripped from magazines years ago, and I came across an editorial featuring an excerpt from Eve Ensler’s book I Am an Emotional Creature: The Secret Life of Girls Around the World.

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An excerpt from Eve Ensler’s book was featured in the March 2010 issue of Glamour.
Photo Credit: www.eveensler.org

According to Glamour, this editorial is “the most important 433 words to read” because Eve Ensler “celebrates the true power of a woman.”

Eve Ensler is a feminist, an activist, a playwright, and a performer, but she is best known as the author of The Vagina Monologues. You can check out her website – www.eveensler.org – if you’d like to find out more about her.

Here is what Eve Ensler wrote:

“Dear Emotional Creature:

I believe in you. I believe in your authenticity, your uniqueness, your intensity, your wildness. I love the way you dye your hair purple, or hike up your short skirt, or blare your music while you lip-synch every single memorized lyric. I love your restlessness and your hunger. You possess the energy that, if unleashed, could transform, inspire and heal the world.

Everyone seems to have a certain way they want you to be – your mother, father, teachers, religious leaders, politicians, boyfriends, fashion gurus, celebrities, girlfriends. In reporting my new book, I learned a very disturbing statistic: 74 percent of young women say they are under pressure to please everyone.

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I pulled this article out of the magazine years ago, and it still has a powerful message for women everywhere.
Photo Source: Glamour Magazine

I have done a lot of thinking about what it means to please: to be with the wish or will of somebody other than yourself. To please the fashion setters, we starve ourselves. To please men, we push ourselves when we aren’t ready. To please our parents, we become insane over-achievers. If you are trying to please, how do you take responsibility for your own needs? How do you even know what your own needs are? The act of pleasing makes everything murky. We lose track of ourselves. We stop uttering declaratory sentences. We forget what we know. We make everything OK rather than real.

I have had the good fortune to travel around the world. Everywhere I meet teenage girls and women giggling, laughing as they walk country roads or hang out on city streets. Electric girls. I see how their lives get hijacked, how their opinions and desires get denied and undone. So many of the women I have met are still struggling late into their lives to know their desires, to find their way.

Instead of trying to please, this is a challenge to provoke, to dare, to satisfy your own imagination and appetite. To take responsibility for who you are, to engage. Listen to the voice inside you that might want something different. It’s a call to your original self, to move at your own speed, to walk with your step, to wear your color.

When I was your age, I didn’t know how to live as an emotional creature. I felt like an alien. I still do a lot of the time. I am older now. I finally know the difference between pleasing and loving, obeying and respecting. It has taken me so many years to be OK with being different, with being this alive, this intense. I just don’t want you to have to wait that long.

Love, Eve Ensler”

As Glamour suggested, read this excerpt again and send it on to a girlfriend, a daughter, a niece, a family member, a teenager, a co-worker, a neighbor, or a woman you love or who touched your life.

My hope is that you don’t wait long to live as an “emotional creature.” Discover your desires, your wishes, your hopes, your dreams… then live your life being OK with being different!

Yours Truly,
Vanessa

{Feature Image borrowed from StockSnap.io}

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